Surround Yourself with Souls Who See You

Hello Dear Readers,

There’s something profoundly life changing about being surrounded by people who get you. I’m talking about the ones who don’t judge you for your past, who speak your language of healing, of growth, of goals, and who make you feel safe just by being themselves.

For a long time, I didn’t feel that way. I was constantly triggered by comments, by energy, by people who couldn’t see beyond the surface. I used to carry that anger, that pain, and confusion like armor. But it wasn’t protecting me. It was holding me hostage.

That was before I began the real work.. the deep, uncomfortable, soul-refining work of saying to myself:

“I don’t want to live like this. I don’t want to be angry anymore. I want to be happy. I want to feel like I belong, not to the world at large, but to myself… and to a tribe that speaks my truth.”

And here’s the truth: I never felt like I fit in with “ordinary” crowds. I craved connection with women who had fire in their spirit and goals in their heart…you know…women like me. Women who refused to be defined by their past mistakes. Women who were rebuilding from the ashes, brick by intentional brick.

When you start doing the self-work, when you set boundaries and say, “I’m no longer available for anything that disrupts my peace,” everything changes. You learn what you do want and, more importantly, what you will no longer accept.

That’s why I created Bold Coffee Talk — to build a space where no one gets rejected. Where no story is “too much.” Where trauma, triumph, truth, and transformation all have a seat at the table. This community isn’t just about healing.. it’s about belonging.

It’s about saying: “You’re safe here. You’re seen. You’re heard. And you’re not alone.”

Being around like minded souls makes a world of difference. It’s the kind of support that keeps you grounded when life gets messy… and lifts you higher when you’re ready to rise.

So if you’re reading this and you’ve ever felt like the black sheep, the outsider, or the one who never quite fit in.. just know that you’ve found your people. You’ve found your place.

✨ This is your space. And we’re just getting started.

With love,

Mel 💋